Like Drano and Chris said, adjust the tilt bob to your style and the style you want your guests to use.
I'm always curious why people set their tilts liberally and then tell you to "take it easy" when you start to nudge their machines. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about practicing your death saves as a guest in someones house. I'm talking about nudging without even receiving warnings or at worst taking one or two.
Anyone else out there think that setting a loose tilt and then verbally warning people is a strange practice? Is there some other logic behind this that I don't understand?